.RULES for LOVE

<3..never>
to denigrate the other.
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You must have personal respect and
cosideration for yourself
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Everyone desrves respect and love, but you
can't expect to get it unless you give it.
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If you allow your partner to disparage you, except
to hear other damaging words.
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Whatever you are willing to accept is exsactly what
you're going to get.
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Be compassionate, understanding, forgiving and
merciful.
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Patience, kindness, consideration and
thoughtfulness can never be in short demand.
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<3..never>
hurt or degrade you or your partner.
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Vow to protect yourself from thoughtless, rude,
mean or punishing behavior.
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If destructive words are being used, for whatever
the reason it must stop. If not, a relationship
can't survive.
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Once you've reacted you can then proactive.
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A controlled mouth shows a controlled mind.
Use words for empowerment, encouragement and
positive recognition.
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Ask for respect. Quietly demand it. If your lover,
partner, parent or friend can'r exhibit self control
over their mout, seriously consider looking
elsewhere for a relationship.
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Pick an appropriate the time to discuss important
issues. This is particularly true if there is an
emotional charge where feelings of anger or
vexation need to be vented.
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<3..never>
private or intimate issues in public. Wait until you
have privacy and the time to tackle issues.
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If a person makes a mistak, or does something
that disappoints or angers you, belittlement or
badmouthing them in front of others will only lead
to further resentment, anger and frustration.
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Talking is good for closure of some issues, and
unless allowed, will create a wound that won't
close.
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<3..you>
words on the separated or departed. Life and
thought continues.
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Romance doesn't just exist, you must make it
happen. You must make a sincere effort to keep it
alive to help your relationship flourish.
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Little things count, it doesn't have to be a dozen
roses and champagne all the time. A favorite
piece of candy in a pocket or a litle note can
mean a lot.
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Commit yourself to do something romatic everyday.
Show it, demonstrate it. It's the accumulative
total of the little things that in end adds up to a
super special love romance.